Building a Better Relationship with Our Pets

Lesia Alexander, founder of Heart and Soul with Animals • Jul 31, 2020

Animal lovers know that sharing life with an animal companion is beneficial for well-being and health. However, when animals are distressed and we don’t know what they need, we worry, and that can impact the quality of our own lives. Having a reciprocal, bonded, growing relationship with animals is important for the health, well-being and peace of mind of everyone in the home. Animal communication can help with this.

As an animal communicator, I would love to share some simple tips.

Be Present and Calm
With everything that has been going on, being calm and present in the moment is that much more important for building a harmonious home life with your animals. When animals are stressed and acting out, they need your support. It is your job as the animal parent to intervene when they are too wound up to calm themselves.

Practicing presence cultivates the inner observer and a state of detachment. This helps in staying separate when your animal is stressed. When you practice presence, you model calm for animals and can witness and regard them in their process without engaging and amplifying the situation. This is powerfully healing for your animals.

Being the calm in the storm for your animals builds trust.

Let Them Know
Animals experience life through their senses. Use your sense imagery to send them pictures, sensations, feelings. Often when you talk, you have pictures in our head and that’s what animals are picking up. So keep talking, but also send those sense-laden messages.

It’s very important to let your animals know about any changes in routine. Let them know in advance:

  • Life changes (job, relationship, residence, daily schedule)
  • When you’re going someplace, where, what you’re doing and why, for how long and when you’ll be back. A Zoom meeting or yoga in your room alone counts, too. Send your animal an imagery email if you’ve been delayed. Send extra “Thinking of you”, “I love you” messages. Your animals will love those!
  • Who, how many, for how long and expected end time (party, house guests, contractors)

When animals know what’s going on and what to expect, they feel a lot safer.

Enjoy Each Other
Now that you are sharing the present moment with your animals by sending them messages, how do you know that they’re receiving the information?

One of my very favorite exercises is to think of something that is very easy for an animal to do, then using sense imagery, invite them to do that for you. Start with something simple like sitting on your lap when you read. Give it a little time and see what happens. Try this with your animals! It’s so fulfilling and fun.

Mutual Benefit
What you’ve probably noticed is that the things that we do to support our animal’s well-being are also the things that support our own well-being. Both we and our animals reap the many benefits of these practices. In the end, it’s about uplifting the quality of your animal’s life by making sure that all their needs are met. From that vantage your animal can meet you from their heart and soul and you can both savor the amazing bond of love, healing and shared wisdom.

Lesia Alexander, MA, HTACP, SHES, is the founder of Heart and Soul with Animals. She is an inter-species communicator and energy healer, speaker and educator offering training programs in inter-species communication. For more information, visit HeartandSoulwithAnimals.com.

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